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And I certainly don't mean that you should play down your intelligence, since the kind of man you most likely want to attract will also be turned on by your mind.
But I mean that if you miss having hot morning sex before your hot morning coffee, then go ahead and say that. Are men such savages that they can't value a woman for more than the sum of her lady parts?
Women are socialized to believe that men are jerks and men resent women scrutinizing them for covert jerkiness.
Where I do agree with dating coaches is on the importance of marketing.
While I agreed with most of her advice, I bristled as she urged women to "leave sex out of your profile" because "it gives men the wrong impression and encourages those you aren't interested in." My guess is that 99.9% of dating coaches would preach the same thing: AND you will attract men who are incapable of seeing women as anything more than penis receptacles.
This kind of reductionist thinking is horribly unfair to both sexes and, IMHO, is one reason men and women don't trust each other.
When the only right way to be is the way that feels right for After what may be decades of commitment and teamwork in a marriage, couples often reach a point when they stop viewing sex as a necessity in a relationship now built upon the strong tenets of trust, friendship and love.Since I've become intentionally sexually transparent in my dating profile, I haven't met any douchebags. Men like my profile because they know where they stand. My marriage ended for many reasons, but sexual incompatibility was at the top of the list. If you want to write a sexually transparent profile, go for it.The last thing I want, at 51, is another relationship in which I can't be myself sexually -- or to spend time with someone hoping that the sex will get better, then being disappointed when it doesn't. If a grown man is going to lose respect for me because I'm transparent about sex, then he isn't someone I want to be with anyway. The guy (or guys) you're meant to be with will appreciate it and you don't need to be concerned about the other ones anyway.If you're like me, you'd be insulted, turned off, and ready to swipe left on Tinder. Men need to be held accountable for their own behavior, and if women aren't putting out till Date #10 for the sole reason that a dating coach told them 10 is the magic number, or if they're assiduously avoiding the topic of sex, or if they're afraid to show up to dinner in a clingy blouse because it will signal to their date that they're "only good for one thing," then men don't have to own their choices. Bad things happen when adults aren't up front about their sexual and relationship intentions.
Because women are essentially telling them they can't. Women may pretend to be less sexual than they are for fear of not being taken seriously.Believe it or not, people will think you've posted a picture with an ex, even if he or she might be 30 years younger or older than you are. The scenery might be lovely but no one wants to use a magnifying glass to get a good look at you. Don't post pictures you take of yourself in a mirror. And make sure they are pictures you are in as well.