Early dating serious conversations
This is definitely a question you want to ask the first day you meet. Don’t assume because he goes to church, has a relationship with God, and is a “God fearing man” that it’s understood that he will wait for you. While everything is still rosy, women might ignore the elephant in the room and end up wasting their precious time, or they pay later by being with a man who doesn’t fulfill their needs. A choice that you will have to live with for the rest of your life.No need in wasting time or falling in love with someone who is emotionally unavailable. If having children is your heart’s desire, this is something you should discuss early on in the relationship. The point is to get singles who desire to be married to think carefully about what’s important to them and then to have open communication about these issues while dating. Asking questions doesn’t sound so weird or embarrassing when your health, sanity, and livelihood are at stake.
You want someone who will encourage and instill the same values in your children. This question will establish whether he is just out to have a good time with no intention of anything serious. Too many women rationalize or downplay a big issue during the puppy love phase of a new relationship. I know they say, you can’t help who you fall in love with, truth is… Falling in love with a man who refuses to be a father to his kid(s) is a choice.
During each stage, positive factors sway partners toward maintaining and strengthening their relationship while the negative factors at any stage contribute to its deterioration.