Online dating intense
I felt like I was hit by a meteor and I seriously thought I was going to pass out. I went on a date a couple months ago with a someone who I also had crazy chemistry with (not as much as Mr. Don’t fool yourself and don’t give up those potentially great people just because they didn’t blow you away the first date.
The first time we spoke was incredible, we both felt it. But, that didn’t translate into a relationship unfortunately. It certainly isn’t a guarantee of relationship success.
But after one serious heartbreak and hundreds of pounds spent on subscription fees, love still eludes her.‘In many ways, internet dating is a great way to meet people, but it’s such a whirlwind of highs and lows,’ she says.
‘I’ve met some lovely men, but I’ve also met many who lied about themselves and their intentions.’Her experiences are mirrored by many women, who find that internet dating is great if you want a casual fling, but not for anything longer lasting because there are so many dishonest men seeking cheap thrills.
If you think that your date is too intense, you may be right.
Many people struggle with being overly intense, and if you are dating someone like this you may feel pressured to start a relationship before you are ready.
With an unlimited number of other people on offer via the internet, there’s little incentive to work it out if things get tough.
Apart from the risk of sexually transmitted disease, ultimately a never-ending quest for grass that’s greener means that women (and men) don’t face the realities of relationships.
Before she started online dating, Jo Elliott had two ‘semi-serious’ relationships.
Well, I have given it some thought and asked a few people.
Is there an impact of instant chemistry on relationship success? When they talk about their past relationships they say that their partner was cold or disinterested in the relationship, and they paint themselves as the victim – and this hasn’t just happened once.