Boyfriend still active on dating site
He will say anything to avoid you finding out the truth.The start of your reply describes well what I d like to do. I want to go, leave without a trace don t want explanation. Hello Gizzle, Please see my comment above about sexual addiction. It moved quickly, we were both fresh out of long term relationships. Things can get so horrible if he is a SA and you stay with him without him being in treatment. Mary I've been with my bf for almost 3 years.met on POF.came to find out we had mutual friends.Last week, i discovered that my bf of 5 yrs is on a dating site called Plenty of Fish. I just want to pack up while he is not here and leave without a word as I feel that he is going to literally just dump me one day to another. I have never been lied to like this before and it's shoking that there are people out there like this. Thank fully she found out about me and told m EVERYTHING. There is happiness out here and it sure as hell is not being with someone who is entertaining other women and lying to you. I have fohnd out that during the 2 years relationship there wasn t a period when he wasn t lying.About three weeks ago, we went through a huge fight and even took a week off.. He is on badoo saying he is single and lives on his own and constantly trying to ask out somebody. You are sacrificing your own happiness for someone who clearly does not know what they want in life. I'm very worried about when it's over how I'm going to het ober this horrible experience and the insecurity I feel is crippling. Then when he freaks out on you tell him thats how you felt and you wanted him to understand the anger and hurt you felt. I say you can forgive someone but never forget what they do to your heart My boyfriend done exactly the same about a week ago, I found him on a dating site so I made an account myself as someone else and messaged him, he even sent me his number, I'm still with him now I don't even no what to do You made an account knowing that your boyfriend didn't know it was you ok And he gave you his number ( hello) he gave you his number to a random girl who wasn't his girlfriend. However, he was exchanging phone numbers with these women. TRUST is the biggest thing in a relationship with out trust it's nothing. Nope He has just broken the vows before even making them. He claims he doesn't know why he does it, he is bored and that he would never actually act on any of it.
Do you live with this or stop it all and find another who may do the same thing.... The fight...one you think started it all...let that happen and then used it as the excuse to indulge. Shut up and live with it or pack up and move on girlfriend. You need to be able to watch his reaction and see the whole story. Maybe he's having cyber sex with these people--but it's up to you to draw the line with what you are okay with and not. I'm just saying that 5 years is a long time, and while you ABSOLUTELY have a right to be hurt, suspicious, and angry, hear him out. If you are just a temporary girl in his mind, you will get more hurt later down the road. I checked his call log and there were calls while I was at work and while I was sleeping to a local chat line.I havent confronted him about it, mainly because im waiting to see how long he keeps it up. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it. Surely he will wants to bring her home and do whatever. Since I made my post I found out he was talking to a girl for about a month that he met in Badoo and he lied to me and said he was going to "play ball" and ended up going to hook up w/her. This is the first time I'm talking about this amd nobody knows in my environmemt because I'd feel ashamed open up about it. You are in an awkward spot because you know this doesn't end nicely. You have just been told secretly he is a BF and a quiet pig. You have to choose whether you are going to live with that fact. Calm yourself down as much as you can before you confront him about it so that you don't get too angry or upset. It may have been a thoughtless mistake that escalated into something else. His search history said "free singles in my area"...
Nothing will come of talking for until he has met someone else he wants you as the live in and wants some other deserts on the side. If I were you, I would go into it with a clear mind. Firstly he didn't get a number off someone or walking down the street bumped into someone. After long conversations and work, things seem to be going well lately....until this morning I had a bad feeling and looked at his phone. It means he is looking for variety while keeping you as the GF. You are the only one who can choose whether you want to turn a blind eye or end it with him. We had a huge fight about this about a month ago when I once again found him on POF.